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Having sex while on the rag  

seejane
8/8/2006 3:41 pm

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yeah I know... it's not the best word to use... but honestly there isn't really a 'pretty' word for a woman's cycle. LOL

So I have a question for all you men... and yeah some of the ladies that like ladies

What are your thoughts on having sex with your woman while she is on her period? Also what about not just sex... what about going down on her?

I know some women including B don't like doing it during that time of the month. They feel dirty and gross... well I'm not like that. I mean yeah I feel gross.. well cause it is. But I ALSO feel really horny most of the time during it as well unless I have massive cramps.

I have yet to do anything with someone while Aunt Flo is visiting because I am afraid it would freak the guy out. So I am always a recluse when I'm on my period and secretly get off amazingly well all naturally lubed up and all hehehehehehe

So what are your thoughts on it all??
winteach
3667 posts 

8/8/2006 7:26 pm

i am past that point, but men that were able to handle it were A+ in my book, and yes, most of us are hornier during that time.

blacktieandtux
191 posts 

8/8/2006 8:27 pm

I was given to understand, by a lovely young lady, that orgasms are a great remedy for cramps. Being the gentleman that I am, I made certain to offer as much relief for her discomfort as possible.

Really, there isn't anything all that unpleasant about natural body functions.

AllWrongForYou
175 posts 

8/8/2006 8:49 pm

You would be amazed at how exciting all sexual activities can be during thqt time. And I do mean all. But a woman has to be comfortable with you going down on her then. Grabbing the string with your teeth and pulling out the plug drives some women wild.

The_Eskimo
13091 posts 

8/8/2006 10:28 pm

Personally, I'm in for bloody squishy sex.

But the women I've met were more like your friend B. They felt gross and being dirty... and therefore, that means absolutely no sex during their period.

Sure, I can think of some ahem... "environmental issues" alright, but somehow, I think there are ways to mitigate those issues. An old towel would be ok, I think. And taking a shower after a blood bath would probably be a good idea.

I'll do an Ipodgrl of myself (!!!!). About those cramps, one natural way to get relief... is self-induced orgasms, aka... masturbation.

I know your interest of doing experiments in the name of Science (with a capital... S (!) ) , so I'm passing along these infos.

It's up to you to ahem... determine whether such reliefs from cramps really happen... or not.

Take care!

-E

KingCuddle
15961 posts 

8/9/2006 3:15 am

I just got an A+ from WinTeach

mitch_m
875 posts 

8/9/2006 5:24 am

It's fine. Since there is blood involved, though, I might want to know the person had tested negative for HIV.

Big_lapdog420
7023 posts 

8/9/2006 8:21 am

Making love is beautiful .

Peace to you .


Fear is the little death. It stops us from living a life of joy.

Zubenelgenubi
17400 posts 

8/9/2006 3:26 pm

If you don't want to deal with the issues or possibility of a little messiness just yet (or ever), use a diaphragm or the INSTEAD® SoftCup (google-able) which is a non-contraceptive menstrual device similar to and inserted like a diaphragm, but is disposable.

Allegrina
17418 posts 

8/10/2006 12:37 am

All the guys I've ever known never minded that and even enjoyed everything you describe, and yes, I've heard them say that they believed it was a relief from cramps. And it was

seejane
695 posts 

8/10/2006 4:05 am

Yeah I know about the relief from cramps thing... thats part of the reason I get off so often during my period. However if it's massive cramps that I don't even feel like I can stand up straight... well I don't really want someone (even me) doing much down there until it subsides a little.

However thank god I don't get those very often so I'm just fine getting off and relieving the bits of pain that I do get

Big_lapdog420
7023 posts 

8/10/2006 5:44 am

Caffeine has a huge impact on the " . " ...

Peace to you .


Fear is the little death. It stops us from living a life of joy.

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